29 October 2012

DATE A GIRL WHO READS by Rosemarie Urquico


Date a girl who reads.
Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes.
She has problems with closet space because she has too many books.
Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.
Find a girl who reads.
You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag.
She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she finds the book she wants.
You see the weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a second hand book shop?
That’s the reader.
They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow.
She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street.
If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already.
Lost in a world of the author’s making.
Sit down.
She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted.
Ask her if she likes the book.
Buy her another cup of coffee.
Let her know what you really think of Murakami.
See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship.
Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent.
Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.
It’s easy to date a girl who reads.
Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas and for anniversaries.
Give her the gift of words, in poetry, in song.
Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings.
Let her know that you understand that words are love.
Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book.
It will never be your fault if she does.
She has to give it a shot somehow.
Lie to her.
If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie.
Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue.
It will not be the end of the world.
Fail her.
Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax.
Because girls who understand that all things will come to end.
That you can always write a sequel.
That you can begin again and again and still be the hero.
That life is meant to have a villain or two.
Why be frightened of everything that you are not?
Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop.
Except in the Twilight series.
If you find a girl who reads, keep her close.
When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her.
You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you.
She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.
You will propose on a hot air balloon.
Or during a rock concert.
Or very casually next time she’s sick.
Over Skype.
You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet.
You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes.
She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day.
You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.
Date a girl who reads because you deserve it.
You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable.
If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone.
If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.
Or better yet, date a girl who writes.

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14 October 2012

Forbidden Gravitation

I felt it again;
The sunk feeling when a supposedly fun, exciting, turn of events sets the siren of my danger radar off...

Something so innocent, triggered the knock on my wild fantasy's door;
The door I so carefully locked up and hidden away, even from myself.
The door I so consciously avoid, and never let loose...

The fear I felt for my sanity,
So strong my whole being jerked in agony.
So strong, I could not even fight,
Or flight.

My chest contracted;
There was never enough air.

My eyes went wild looking for exit sign,
But I could see none.
I was trapped;
By my own choice.
By my own steps.

My throat closed;
Not even a croak escaped.
No help can be said.
No signal can be reached.

Hidden desires are drawn by the eyes and bodies,
Threatening to break free from all chains and covers...

Temptation never felt so compelling to be let loose,
To be drowned in passion and abandon,
To be challenged by indignation,
To be faced in fascination.

My whole mastery shook;
Control never felt so constrained.

Whispers of luring seduction never sounded so loud;
How wonderful to bask in fantasy...
To let all desires run free...
And let satisfaction engulfs me...

Enticement so subtle so persuasive,
Coaxing the snare of belief imprisonment to forgive...

Oh, how I yearn to caress,
The glorious sensation on human's skin...
The liberation of satisfaction.

Alas,
The world will never let me forget;
For I am the bearer of name,
The bearer of shame...

Alas,
The conscience will never let me break free;
For I am the loved one of those who care,
For I am the lover of those who care...

In my shoes I can say;
How lovely if I am with no name, no shame,
If I  am one no one knows, and no one cares...

But be content, I will;
For I am me,
And blessed, I be.


So much loves are pouring onto me with no chain and no bane,
And I will forever be grateful for this name.





Loving and Yearning,
Lina.

10 October 2012

Out Of Control?

I hate not being in control of myself.

I hate not being able to control myself.

I hate that I let myself not being in control. 



Does that make me a control-freak?





Wondering,
Lina.